There are a few things that every guy should have. Check that,
there are lots of things every guy should have: money, the car of their
dreams, one really incredible vacation with a story that can be told
over and over without getting stale or boring (. . . yeah, what are the
odds of the Brazilian volleyball team staying near my little hacienda?
I’ve never had so much cachaca in my life. . . ), maybe some piece of
immortality (successful child, footprints on the moon, an impressive
first). But in the real world where such things are much harder to
attain, there are a few items that aren’t extravagant or even
superfluous, but I’d consider all of the necessities for a modern guy
like me, and you. Some are things that will be used daily, others will
get used sporadically, but if you don’t have them, you’ll be screwed
and pissed about it. Be Better Guys proposes the 5 accessories every
man should own.
Watch: The
real question is not whether or not you should have a good watch, it’s
what type. Short of a ring, the watch is might be the only piece of
jewelry most guys have. What you wear on your wrist
says something about you to people. Sporty or techie, serious or
whimsical, all are denoted by what you wear on your wrist. Do you want
a chunky chronograph or slim dress watch? Do you want a metal band or a
leather one? Bejeweled or lacking ornamentation? Will you actually use
all of the features of a high-end watch, or is part of the deal brand
appeal? A watch can be a sizable investment. For example, the Omega Speedmaster Professional goes for @ $2,400; a Patek Philippe wristwatch went for over $4 million at auction.
You can have a nice watch for a few hundred dollars – we recommend a
mechanical watch that winds itself and doesn’t need a battery. Choose
wisely and take care of it, you might have an heirloom for your kid.
Sunglasses: This
seems like a no brainer, but how many people buy some crappy green
plastic lens “made in Taiwan” $10 special each summer, to lose at the
lake, or on the boardwalk, or in the back of their uncle’s car after
three months? Your eyes are one of the organs you most definitely don’t
want to ruin and UV (ultra violet) light, direct sun, and various and
sundry insects and debris flying into them can do that for you. These
hazards are around every day, regardless of the season. Unless you live
in a hovel, you’re outside for some time each day and can benefit from
some eye protection. If you say, “I always lose them,” consider this:
if they only cost $10 from some bodega, why would you give a frog’s fat
ass about them being lost? Invest in a pair that fit your face (square face, round glasses). Consider a modern take on a true classic, the aviator. Check out the Ray Ban square-framed aviator, similar to what the Michael Western character on “ Burn Notice” wears. Can’t guarantee Gabrielle Anwar comes with them, however.
Wallet:
I remember my first wallet. It was from a “make your own” leather goods
kit, in natural tan, with brown vinyl lacing. Made me feel like a man
to have my own wallet to hold money, my ID (or whatever passed for ID
at 12), and maybe a picture. Fast forward a few years and my wallet
isn’t too much more complicated. I carry cash in my pocket (see the
next item); I keep my ID (driver’s license or other ID card),
credit/debit card, one credit card, and health care card. Do you need
anything more? While I opt for a simple black or brown leather billfold (2-4 pockets, a clip for your money, one fold), no reason you can’t have something with more pizzazz, like the DB Clay Stampage Gray.
The key is not to overload it with so much stuff you need a rubber band
to hold it together. And it leaves a huge ring in the back of your
pants. Not attractive.
Money clip:
When someone picks your pocket, they pick the back pocket or the
interior pocket of your jacket. With your cash in a money clip, it’s in
your front pocket, much tougher to get to, and those pockets have a bit
more space than the ones on your ass. Even if you get your pocket
picked, credit cards can be cancelled; cash is gone forever. It keeps
the line of your pants smooth with no unsightly bulges, and if you
want, you could add a license and a credit card and do away with the
wallet all together. There are a myriad of options, but I have two: a
leather one with magnets to hold the money in place and a metal clip
with a knife, scissors, and file on it. My favorite, however, might be
the oversized paperclip that Tiffany and Co. (and other more reasonably priced manufacturers) makes.
Cuff links: In today’s world, a guy has to have at least one shirt with French cuffs, which means you  need
cuff links. It’s provides one of the few places where a bit a flash for
men is acceptable. For a meeting, a cocktail party, a wedding, or or
occasion, cuff links up the ante on the standard barrel cuff and can
pull your whole look together. Hell, guys are wearing them to the
office on a regular basis now days – guys without titles behind their
names or in big corner offices. Cuff links come in all sorts of styles, materials and colors. But you don’t need several pair. You can really get by with one or two -- get gold or sliver, in a simple geometric shape that won’t detract from what you’re wearing. Throw in a couple of pair of silk knots, which provide color and cost about $7 a pair, and you’re set.
I’ve
left out things like a handkerchief, your cellphone, or lip balm. The
handkerchief is a basic part of your wardrobe; don’t leave home with
out it. Cellphones . . . hell, my momma carries her cellphone and she
hates the thing, so there you go. Lip balm? Well, try to remember
because no one likes ashy lips. Otherwise, the things above will serve
you well over the course of a year or a lifetime. Each will become
indispensible and you’ll be better off for taking the time to
incorporate them into you repertoire.
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